If a German tells you that he was mobbed, try not to look too horrified. He probably wasn't pummelled into the ground by a horde of rabid yobs. What he's most likely trying to convey to you is that he has suffered an incidence of bullying. Not a pleasant
experience, for sure, but it creates a far less violent image in one’s
head than "mobbing".
Mobbing is another
case where an English term has been dragged, kicking and screaming, into German. And it didn't only lose the fight, but also its original meaning. In German, Mobben/Mobbing is used for all manner of bullying, be it at work,
at school or in one’s personal life, regardless of whether the perpetrators are a pack of club swinging thugs ganging up on someone in an alleyway or whether it’s one single, mean-spirited person orchestrating a slur campaign behind the victim's back.
I've not yet been able to figure out
a) why another word was required for something for which plenty of German words already exist, for example (and depending on context) schikanieren, drangsalieren, hänseln, nötigen, triezen, zwiebeln, (jemanden) fertigmachen, ausgrenzen, verekeln, the list goes on...
b) why, if the existing possibilities did not suffice, it had to be an English word
c) why they picked the WRONG English word
Curiously, the Duden also
features the compound noun Mobbingberatung, meaning “a professional
counselling service for those affected by Mobbing”. I'm guessing the reason for this is that Mobbing's primary connotation is with psychological harassment in the workplace, with the aim of making someone
resign from their job.
I don't endorse bullying in any shape or form, but I wouldn't be surprised if this phenomenon was much more common in Germany compared to other countries like the US and the UK, since it is nigh on impossible in Germany to fire an employee on a permanent contract, even if they deliver a performance that would make an arthritic sloth blush. See here for an amusing blog post which puts a bit of a dent in the myth of "German Efficiency".
On this side of the pond "mob" has to do with crowds, sometimes angry: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/mobbing We use "bullying" to mean, bullying. Funny how you note that German has several words but they use the English one.
ReplyDeleteHi Sue! Same connotation at the other side of the pond. A single person can't "mob" anyone ;-)
DeleteThose German words I cited are not straight translations for bullying in its broadest sense - it very much depends on the context, i.e. what precise form the bullying takes. "Schikanieren" is probably the closest, though.
My favourite is still the bodybag that some company came out with years ago. Because what else would you want to transport your gear in on a camping trip? :-D
ReplyDeleteThat was a good one, LOL!
DeleteThanks for the plug :) Bis morgen! And no "mobbing" when you finally meet me in person :)
ReplyDeleteMore like gobbing and chomping... :)
DeleteGood grief!! One of my favourite stereotypes just took a beating. Or maybe it was a mobbing ...
ReplyDeleteYup. Just blame Linda...
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